I have been dating my girlfriend for a while and I am madly in love with her. She is my best friend. I can tell her anything I want to without being judge or fear that she would kill me. She always knows how to make my day better. She rubs my neck when she knows I am tired or worked too hard. The main point is that I know without a shadow of doubt that this girl is going to be my wife someday. I have decided to to take our relationship to the next level and ask her the BIG question.
Most girls do wait for this question their whole lives it seems. To have that one prince charming come along and sweep them off their feet to a happy ever after. I have found that others dread this and I wonder, why? I have these two friends of mine that have been their for me through thick and thin. We all met in college and I was at first shocked to hear they were dating. They have been together now for over a year and now my friend (The boyfriend) wants to propose to the other friend(The girlfriend).
This would be a good thing but they both have different views when it comes to getting married. The guy is ready to settle down and get married and have a family. He has a good job and working on moving out of his parents house. The girl does not know if she really wants to get married or at least she pretends to.
I always thought that when you are in a relationship it is important to be on the same page with your partner on everything that is life changing. Maybe some couples see it differently. Is it that important that couples agree on every big issue before marriage? Maybe some people can get by with it. Do you think that it will eventually come back to bite you in the ass, or can couples live in a shadow of denial? If you agree on everything, does that mean you are too a like?
I know that this may sound cocky but me and my girlfriend get along great. We agree on every issue and we talk about everything. I know where she is coming from and the same with her. I don’t know what the future holds for us but I have a feeling that it is a good one. I hope that this was helpful to some of you and if not then it was more of me thinking out loud.